The truth about forgiveness

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I have a confession to make; I struggle with forgiveness.

Many people do.  It’s complicated, it’s messy, our emotions are involved and it can sometimes feel like too much to bear.

The word alone  is almost like dropping an F-bomb.  It stirs up a lot of emotions and uncomfortable feelings.

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How to live your best life

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There is a lot of talk on social media about living your best life.  You’ll often hear people saying “I’m just out here trying to live my best life, ” or using the hashtag #LivingMyBestLife or #MyBestLife, along with a picture that depicts the person achieving a certain goal or dream displayed on Facebook or Instagram.

I undoubtedly have used the phrase myself on social media so this got me to wondering what “living your best life” truly means.  Does it mean accomplishing some great goal that society says you should  by a certain time?  Is it keeping up with the people in your social group?  Or is it living the best you can with your abilities, resources and talents every day?

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Shattered Dreams

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The other day I was walking by an elementary school as the kids were playing outside at recess.

I love the sound of children’s laughter while at play; it reminds me of my childhood, innocence and the wonder of childhood dreams.

As I paused and looked at the kids running happily to and fro I wondered what their home lives were like, what dreams they may have already discovered in their little hearts and if they would come to pass.  Because often in between being a child and becoming an adult life gets in the way. Continue reading

The art of letting go

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The other day, as I was sorting some old clothes in preparation to donate them to my local Goodwill I realized I carry an emotional attachment to a lot of my old things.  Clothes, jewelry, trinkets, plain ol junk; to the point that I struggle to give away things even though they are no longer useful.  I don’t know why, it’s not like I didn’t grow up with enough in childhood, but for some reason I  find myself feeling emotionally attached to a lot of my stuff to the point that is hard for me to let go.

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Football and forgiveness

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The other day I was watching an NFL game; (Go RAMS!) both teams played well and both teams suffered some mistakes.  Both teams at times fumbled (i.e. mishandled) the ball, but I noticed how they had to quickly shake off whatever play they didn’t make and go on to the next part of the game.

In other words they could not dwell on their screw up if they wanted to continue to fight for a chance to win the game.

I thought about how this type of attitude can be applied to the lives you and I live every day.  If we want to make it through to our goal, the finish line or just life in general we can’t get hung up on the everyday screw ups; mistakes we make and offenses made towards us by others.

Getting caught up on an old hurt is like fumbling the ball and continuing to fumble the ball because you can’t get past the first fumble (the initial hurt).  Even with some of life’s biggest hurts, we can’t let those get us caught up or we will stay stuck, unable to move forward in life, going around the same mountain, replaying the same offense. Continue reading

Stuck in the past

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How many of you struggle with living in the past?

Maybe you feel mentally stuck in old memories or emotionally stuck in old hurts.

Well, you’re not alone.

The other day I was entertaining an old friend I hadn’t seen in years from school.  We did some reminiscing, which is normal, but I noticed that the majority of the conversation this person carried had to do with what happened when we were in school.  Even though this person had made major moves since those days it seemed his heart was still in what could have been. Continue reading