The other day I was watching an NFL game; (Go RAMS!) both teams played well and both teams suffered some mistakes. Both teams at times fumbled (i.e. mishandled) the ball, but I noticed how they had to quickly shake off whatever play they didn’t make and go on to the next part of the game.
In other words they could not dwell on their screw up if they wanted to continue to fight for a chance to win the game.
I thought about how this type of attitude can be applied to the lives you and I live every day. If we want to make it through to our goal, the finish line or just life in general we can’t get hung up on the everyday screw ups; mistakes we make and offenses made towards us by others.
Getting caught up on an old hurt is like fumbling the ball and continuing to fumble the ball because you can’t get past the first fumble (the initial hurt). Even with some of life’s biggest hurts, we can’t let those get us caught up or we will stay stuck, unable to move forward in life, going around the same mountain, replaying the same offense. Continue reading
How many of you struggle with living in the past?
Maybe you feel mentally stuck in old memories or emotionally stuck in old hurts.
Well, you’re not alone.
The other day I was entertaining an old friend I hadn’t seen in years from school. We did some reminiscing, which is normal, but I noticed that the majority of the conversation this person carried had to do with what happened when we were in school. Even though this person had made major moves since those days it seemed his heart was still in what could have been. Continue reading
It’s OK to have a break-down
To get angry
To show emotion
It means that you are human
We are not robots
Our burdens at times get too heavy to bear
And it’s OK to need a break
To be flawed
And vulnerable Continue reading
I remember the pain;
I remember feeling hopeless
I never wanted to be a leader. I never saw myself as one and often had trouble speaking up in a crowd or voicing my opinion. I come from a background where my opinion often wasn’t encouraged or valued so being a leader wasn’t something I was really secure in.
Following was something I was much more accustomed to and had an easier time with, however I noticed there were times when I was following the wrong people. Continue reading